Are You Safe In The Clubs? Safety Inside the Club.
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Always place your safety first. If you follow the safety tips on this site you have nothing to worry about. Remember we have been working in this industry with no problems at all. The following are some saftery tips whilst in the club.
Stripper Safety Tip 1 – Watch your alcohol
Make sure you do not drink so much that you are not on the ball. I have seen countless girls lose their money, tell c ustomer things they shouldn’t of and behave in a way that gets them fired, all cause they had drunk too much
Stripper Safety Tip 2 – Keep it business
Make sure you do not give your real information to the customers, girls who work in the club, and anyone else who works in the club. You don’t know these people and cannot trust them. Most people are nice, but you will not know who they are, especially if you have just started. So just be aware….some people have their own agenda Make sure you have a set of fake information ready, a persona that you have made up and feel comfortable with so that when a customer asks you anything personal the fake details will roll off your tongue
Stripper Safety Tip 3 – Keep Alert
Make sure you NEVER leave your drink unattended, even for a split second….it only takes seconds to slip something into it. If you have lost track of where the drink has been, just get a new one…just say to the customer…”I really feel like a new flavour, shall we both have xxxxxx?”
Stripper Safety Tip 4 – Stay Within Your Comfort Limits
Don’t let customers do anything to you that will make you feel uncomfortable even if you are desperate for money. It may make you more money in that instant, but Trust me in the long run, it will decrease your self image and your morale and will ultimately make you feel bad about working there and will lead to less money later…..just remember…tomorrow is another night and there will always be another customer.
Stripper Safety Tip 5 – Keep In Control
Don’t let customers break the rules in the clubs e.g. take drugs etc. If they get caught you will be held responsible even if you haven’t done anything ……because you should know better its your responsibility to protect the clubs permit.
Stripper Safety Tip 6 – Protect Your Valuables
Make sure you keep hold of your money and valuables at all times. Sometimes even lockers are not very safe. Do not just leave things even or a minute, and try not to bring anything into wok that has your real details, just in case somebody does get hold of them
Stripper Safety Tip 7 - Keep Your Feet On The Ground
Don’t get caught up with “too good to be true” offers. You know the ones where they will marry you and take you away to live on their private island. Usually it is just their drink and ego talking, but there are people who will try and lure you into all sorts of seedy situations, so be careful.
Stripper Safety Tip 8 – Under Promise & Over Deliver
No matter how desperate you are for money, don’t make promises that you will see the customer outside and be sexual with him. If he asks you, be elusive by saying, you are embarrassing me…stop, with a flatter of your eyelashes. And change the topic. If you do promise him anything, he might tell your management, be a cop or actually hound you until you pay up…so be careful
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hey this is a very interesting article!
I’ve got a question: if you have to fill out let’s say a W-9 or an employment application at a club (do they even do W-9s?) wouldn’t that be giving your information to people who work at a club? How can you be safe and protect your privacy? I’ve been looking at several options lately since the market downsized, trying to decide if I should pursue being a pro-domme or try stripping. Thanks! Really helpful blog. You should do an entry on finances (how to save)!
Hi Veronica,
Most clubs will have normal job application processes, but you will be applyig as a self employed person. Also as they are run like a normal business you can be sure that they have to protect your information. So as long as you apply to a good, well run club, (like in a town or city, not some back alley place) you will find that your information will be safe. I would definately try stripping as you can really do well even in thsi economy
Good idea with the finances entry I will do that soon, maybe for the New year!
Thanks
Mia x
As a retired, successful stripper in the midwest, it is refreshing to hear someone else that is still in the industry give the same advice I’ve given countless girls over the 10 and more years I worked in the clubs.
In the clubs, you are an independent contractor, which means you “rent” the stage. That is your nightly tipout to the house. You are responsible for your own insurance (which is an incredibly good idea!), savings (another great idea – put 1/4 of what you make NO MATTER WHAT into a savings account), and your own actions. Research the club you’re applying at, and even attend it as a customer before you serve yourself up on their menu. It’s your reputation that’s on the line, and you have to protect that at all costs.
As far as protection goes, learn basic self defense. Be a lady when attending customers! Nobody wants to hear about your problems at home. You’re there for their entertainment, so put your best foot forward at all times, no matter what. Ready yourself for unsavory characters and let them know their actions are unacceptable to you. Too often I have seen girls allow the customer to get away with too much because “the customer is always right” or “he paid me well, and it really isn’t that bad”. Whatever! Actions like that bring the whole industry down into the gutter.
I could go on for days about life in the clubs, so I will leave it at that. Thanks, Mia, for presenting a cleaner side to the clubs, the girls, and giving sound, helpful advice! I give lessons since I’ve retired and returned to school. I will definately be sending my students to read your articles!
Dear Hunni Creek
Thank you for your post. It is really great. And I appreciat when other clean dancers aldo teach the same thing
Please feel free to write more here. I am sure girls would really benefit
Thank you
Mia xx
Thanks for responding to my earlier question — what would be a good way to deflect a bad customer? Or how do you know when a customer has gone too far, aside from your own personal discomfort?
-Veronica
Here’s another question: how are relations between fellow strippers at a stripclub?
-Veronica
Hi Veronica
A good way to deflect a bad customer is first with humour and gentle hand movements
And if that doesn’t work, jsutsay that is not allowed here.
And you will know when they have overstepped the boundaries either when they are breaking the club rules or your personal boundaries and you are feeling uncomfortable. Whichever one comes first
Do not let that happen
Good luck
Mia xx
Hi Veronica
Relations between fellow strippers can be one of many
1) friends
2) friendly
3) competitive
4) Bitcy
5) Aggresive
6) igoring each other
or a mixture of all the above
It depends on the girls and where you work
Good luck
Mia x