I have a question I hope you can answer. If the club you’re dancing at calls themselves a topless club, and does not say nude stage dancing, or nude lap dances, does VIP count?
If a customer offers to pay me to take off my bottoms would I be allowed to in VIP? Is it my choice and whatever I’m comfortable with, or will it most likely break the rules of the club?

Thank you so much!
Your blog is amazingly helpful!

xxo
Kaye

I understand about becoming terriefied when you haven’t done something for a while. What I have found usually though is that the thought is actually worse then the actual experience.

Some clubs will insist that you have to dance on the stage and you will need to do private dances to make money

So what I would suggest is realise your fear and realise that it is normal. Tell yourself you have done it before and you survived.

Also you sometimes just need to jump in and you will realise that it is not so bad. When you just think about it, it can be built up into something so huge, but when you do it, you will realise that it is no big deal and that 1000’s of girls do it and survive

If you also want to dip your toe in you can ask the club you start at if you can not be put on stage for a few days and aclimatise yourself to the whole procedure

I wish you luck and let us know what you do

We all will want to know

Mia xx

You can work on your tummy, by doing stomach exercises and burning fat with cardio exerceises. And as it doesn’t show when you are standing, it will more then likely be fine

Most girls have some fat when they sit down. Its ok

The audition can be in front of a boy or girl

If you do nt move right, you will be forgiven as most clubs hire new girls. Just practice by looking at the videos I have in me free 5 part course when you sign up

Good luck
Miaxx

I have dancers in my club who are in thier 40’s and look fantastic. as long as you look good, it doesn’t matter.

Soem cocktail waitresses are ex dancers and some are not. It makes no difference as both jobs are completely different, I usually find that cocktail waitresses cannot bear to take off all thier clothes and would love to have the guts to do it. Not all but a lot of the girls at work I talk to

I hope that helps
Mia xx

Thank you for your email. I can understand it may not have been easy for you to say all that, so it will be good for all the girls to here the answer to those questions

1) Vaginas or pussy’s come in all shapes and sizes. You will not be judged for anything as they have seen it all. And what you will find is that men love them no matter what shape or size. It will more be important if you are toned and fit
So do not worry about that. technically you will be fine and aesthically you will be fine also. The lips are fine, working in a club you will realise that people have different lip sizes and some hang out and others do not…it really does not matter

2) You hair down there can be shaved, but if you would like some coverage, i would recommend you have some hair in a strip known as the brazilian.
This will keep it looking neat and also cover up lips if you want it too.

3) I doubt during your audition show you will turn yourself on as you will be nervous, but even if you do, who cares. This is a strip clb where sexuality is key so don’t worry about that either
And in the club while you are doing the show and really get into it, you will proably make more money as most girls are switched off and go through the motions
If you are really worried, just make sure you do not stimulate yourself by rubbing on anywhere

4) Two girl shows depend mainly on the club you are in to how far they go…it usually is a simulation of sexual palyfulness between the girls, but there may be clubs where more happens

This is totally at your own discrettion whether you want to participate or not. It is totally up to you

I hope that answers your questions and makes you feel relieved.
Mia xx

1. I’m going to audition in full-nude club where the most part of stripdance including poledance I must be totally naked showing also all of my intimates. But I am pretty different down there when comparing to other girls. From videos I have seen all of the strippers have average or small slit deep between their legs. But my pussy is totally opposite – I am slim girl with very flat belly and thin legs with wide gap between them. That makes my pubic mound (bone) very high standing out of my body in front of. Also my pussylips are hanging very long out of my body being so prominently visible in every position both from front and behind me.
So here I have my question I hadn’t found an answer nowhere – is this kind of pussy good or bad thing for stripper, both technically (in example in poledancing) and aestethically (visually for customers)? Of course I think it depends a lot also on taste of managers’ who will look at my body during audition but maybe there’s still common thoughts about it too?

2. Now the second one is shorter question but also about the same detail of body – When going to my first audition is it best to shave the pubic hair completely off or let some patch or stripe there? What is the common and preferred practice today for nude stripper? I have seen both and can’t decide. Unfortunately I can’t also ask it directly from the club now.

3. The most embarrassing question – If I happen unintentionally to drive myself really sexually arousing during my show, how about it? Is it OK or must I avoid it? How are the usual stripgirls, do they just do their boring routine or do they enjoy also themselves during the performance, too? I tend to get really wet down there very easily caused by some stimulation (like from the pole, etc). Can this cause any problems for me and what may the managers and customers think about it as this will become really well visible?

4. And my last silly question I haven’t found an answer yet – The club is asking also two-girl shows then what are the general guidelines for it? How much direct contacts, maybe also some sexual stage acts between girls, I don’t know? Maybe it depends much on club but do you know what is the usual typical scenario?

That’s all from me. Sorry if my questions sounded maybe too sexual all but I had to ask them. I think they all are still on-topic here. Also I’m sorry for my not-perfect english but hopefully you can understand my thoughts. Thanks.