great Attitude! Keep up the pole dancing.

When you first go to a strip club you will find it quite an unusual setting as there are so many amazing looking girls and all of them appear so confident, as you will after a while.

What i fould very difficult to comprehend when i got there was that I had to sell myself, I thought that i would be able to just turn up and men would give me money for the pleasure of seeing me naked.

But it wasn’t like that, so I found the idea of “selling” myself to the guy very difficult to grasp.
And that is what i had to get my head around

My first and second night was just trying to strike up a conversation and timidly asking for a dance.

I did get better, but it does take practice. for your first an second night get used to talking to the customers and asking for a dance. You will get better

if you want to make money quicker, i will always recommend Jessica’s book as she does teach you techniques which really helped me make money

I wish you a lot of luck and come and tell us how your first night went, we will all be wondering
Mia xx

another update- i have had some kick ass nights making $900-1000 and average $500-800. One night i got tipped, yes tipped for nothing $750 straight up in 100 bills. I have danced for celebrities and millionaires, I have girls lining up asking me for tips and having their mouths hang open at the end of the night when they see how much i have made (our club takes half so its not easy) i must admit, these days its NOT easy money.

My first tip would be- STUDY FIRST. I am 20 years old and only need to work two nights a week, stripping always intrigued me and i am a very controlled person so i researched like crazy before hand, about sales, body language, attraction, i chatted to any dancer i already knew and i even had a trial night as a waitress at the club i was keen on to get a true inside look, all these stepping stones paved a way for success and confidence.

Please let me know if you would like me to continue with any other tips!

Lola x

Thank you
No You are not crazy at all!. There are girls who are in thier 30’s and even in their 40’s who still dance, so you are young.

Most clubs will ask your age to check youa re legal, but if you look toned , they do not care how old you are.

Most clubs really do not care how old you are and do not prefer older or younger girls, just girls who look good and make money and do not do stupid things like drugs

You will be fine, go ahead and feel confident

Good luck
Mia xx

thank you.

I understand what you are going through…we all go through these slumps at times. And I know…

You must not compare yourself to your friend because that will make you feel crap about your money and not wanna go for it.So stop watching her

Also I know I do say this and it sounds like I am plugging it ( which I am because I know It works), But when I did go through my major slump, Jessica and her book did help. Her email support made me get rid of the weeds that was stopping me making money…and it is different for everybody, which is why she emails you one to one to teach you what you need.

It is an investment of $97, But I can say it was well worth it.

I hope that helps

What a great idea…should we start a club review here from dancers by other dancers?

Please lte me know
Thanks
Mia xx

Thanks so much for creating this blog. I’ve only been dancing for 6 months and I am still learning new things every day. I am currently looking for a new workplace. Do you know if there are any websites on the internet that have strip club reviews written by actual dancers? I’d like to make as informed a decision as possible about the next club I work at, and I thought it would be helpful if there were a website such as this, where dancers can blog about their personal experience at a club. If this type of site exists, and you are aware of it, I would greatly appreciate your insight : )

i am just emailing a friend who works in Nashville. I will let you know
Mia xx