How to Become A Stripper – Trinity’s Experience (Real Life)
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Hey Girls,
I had an idea which would be really helpful for anyone wanting to become a stripper.
One of our fantastic blog followers said she would kindly share her experience with us. Trinity who first wrote in and told us she was going to become a stripper was about to go for her audition. For those of you who follow the blog, you will know that She got the job! YAY!
Here what she wrote on OCT 4th
Mia,
This was soo helpful!! As is howtostripper.com, AMAZING info. My first audition is tomorrow and I’m pretty confident but also a bit terrified. Any tips on calming my nerves?? I’m generally a very fun, flirty and outgoing individual and I’m hoping to bring that to my stage presence but I need a little help getting past the nerves!
Good luck to everyone!!!
Trinity xoxo
So I thought it would be interesting to track Trinity’s experience so everyone can learn.
Feel free to ask Trinity anything you want, she is really enthusiastic about becoming a stripper and I am sure will be happy to answer questions.
So I asked her why she wanted to become a stripper and here is what she wrote:
Trinity :
I wanted to try stripping, of course, to earn some extra cash. I had a part time job that I busted my tail at to get maybe 300$ a paycheck and it just wasn’t cutting it. I began to HATE my job and I felt really unsatisfied with how hard I worked and how little I earned. People had told me a few times I should become a stripper, I thought jokingly, because I had a great personality and was very fun loving. When I decided to start thinking about it seriously, I started Googling. I kid you not, I Googled How to Be A Stripper. And it gave me some really amazing blogs and sites like this one!
Then came the hard part, talking to my boyfriend and my close friends. I decided I wouldn’t tell my family as I knew it would cause a huge blowout and I wanted to avoid it for my sons sake. Surprisingly, my boyfriend and friends were very supportive and helped me get my outfit together and even set up a practice strip audition for me! I know, it sort of sounds like this was just another random, daily decision that wasn’t a huge deal. It was.
I had to think very hard about if I could handle dancing for strange men, if I would feel ashamed or dirty about it afterwards or even possibly losing family and friends over it. Granted, my friends have been amazing and my boyfriend as well, but it was still a huge decision to make. I thought I could handle dancing on stage though I’d never done it before and just hoped I didn’t make a fool of myself.
It was unsettling the first few times, being naked and trying to get into the persona of someone else, but after the first night, I knew this was something I could do. I LIKED doing it for the most part and I have fun with my routines. I don’t feel ashamed or dirty or like its my ONLY option because it isn’t. It’s a choice I made and that I have no regrets about.
Trinity
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From Trinity:
"It went great!! I got the gig and it's a lot of fun. The girls are pretty nice and while my boss can kinda be a dick, he's cool too. I got to request my audition songs so that helped TONS!!! It wasn't as bad as I imagined it would be!!
Helpful hint, if they ask to work the same night, don't do it unless you've broken in your shoes. Ouch!!! Lesson learned!!! Also, bring several outfit changes to the audition in case too!!! I had to make two work for me the whole night!!!
Thanks again Mia n Best of luck too all!!...."
(posted by : Trinity in Washington State)
From Bree:
Thank you so much for ur advice it got to me just in time the night before my audition :) It was exactly what I needed to hear so thank you.
My audition went great as soon as I walked in the building my nerves were gone I had a great time dancing and ended up working the entire night. It was a different experience than I was expecting but for the better.
A lot of the men really just wanted like companionship it was nice cuz I really enjoy talking to people. Anyway I just wanted to let you know that I got hired had a great time and wanted to say thank you for all of your advice.
(posted by: Bree )
WOW Trinity
Thank you for sharing,
how is your bf finding it now? Is he jelous at all?
I am worried that my boyfriend will be jelous
jj
Hey trinity
what was your first dance like…i am so scared to try it
its great to hear it from a new girl like me
I just signed up to your blogs rss feed. Will you post more on this subject?
JJ,
My bf is still alright with it! He does have some jealousy issues with it sometimes but he trusts me and that’s what makes it easier for him. Plus…we like the money lol. Remember to be open and honest with him and talk with him about your idea to strip BEFORE you make any decisions. In my opinion, talking to him about it before will make him feel like the two of you are making the decision together and that you wanted his approval.
If he still has issues, take him to the club your thinking of working at and let him see how the club runs, he may be more comfortable once he knows the rules and regulations.
-Trin <3
Daisy,
I was terrified I’ll be honest!! I’ll be covering the first dance more in depth in the blog but I had NO experience whatsoever and was RIDICULOUSLY nervous, especially after watching the other girls. Just smile and try to be confident. As one of the girls I work with said, “You can teach a girl to dance but you can’t teach her to have a personality.”
Just be you!!
Trin <3
Trinity I am thinkin about becoming a dancer & ur story truly helps me but my friends questions it tho some still will support me. They say they think I can be really good but its not good to become one. My boyfriend even said he’d leave me if he found out that I started doing it. I work a good payin job but after bills I don’t have much $ to work with. What u think I should do? Should I not tell my boyfriend?
Qui
Qui,
Personally I don’t think you should lie about it, by omission or otherwise. However, losing friends and lovers is something you may have to deal with. One of the girls I work with said she lost a lot of friends when she started dancing but that her real friends stuck with her.
What you need to realize is that a stripper is an ENTERTAINER and a LADY first and foremost. You don’t want to work at a club that is shady or lets their girls do things that are dirty or make you feel uncomfortable. Maybe your friends think that a stripper does more than just dance.
As for money, there are good days and bad days. You will not have a guaranteed amount of take home money each night BUT it all adds up and even bad nights can earn you more than a weeks paycheck. If this is something you truly want to do, I’d keep your day job for two weeks – month to see how well you do and if you can survive on stripping alone.
I think you’re in a hard spot right now and you need to think very carefully if the money you’d make is worth what you might lose. Personally, I think real friends would support something that doesn’t hurt you or degrade you and puts food on the table.
I also think maybe you should talk with your boyfriend about it more and find out WHY he doesn’t like the idea of you dancing. Is it trust issues? Is he embarrassed to be dating a “stripper”? Many of the girls I work with are in good, happy relationships or married so it can be done!!!
I hope that helps and please let me know how it goes for you!!!!
Trin <3
Trinity
I apprieciate the advice thank u so much.
As for my boyfriend his reason is he doesn’t want his girlfriend dancin naked in front of other men. When I tell him that thers dancers in good relationships living comfortably he says it doesn’t matter.
I thought on this for months & no matter what I still wana giv it at least a try. I’m not gona leave my job at least not til I see how it works out. Also I decided that if I did start dancin to keep my bizness & personal life seperate.
Thanks again & ill keep u posted
Qui
Qui,
Does he know that the men are not at ALL allowed to touch you, on stage or during private dances? And if you decide to go ahead with giving it a try, I recommend telling him that is what you are planning and go from there. Prepare yourself for the worst though. But ask him maybe if he’d like to go with you to audition.
On a side note, I personally recommend as well as my boss and girls I work with, that you NEVER start a relationship with someone you met at work. You can give some customers your number to establish a clientele but they need to understand its strictly business. I tell them I DO have a bf and that I don’t take my work home with me. Simple as that.
Good luck to you and all!!!
Trin <3
dear trinity
that is such good advice, i am going to try it and see what happens
I will let you know and fingers crossed he is ok with it
you are so cool Trin<3
jj
Good luck JJ!!!!! I’m glad this is helpful for you
Hey Trinity,
How are you doing now?
I am about to audition soon. I am really really scared and have visions of me falling in stage on my face
Ar
Barien,
the entire subject of stripping or what?? I’m glad you’re enjoying the blog!! I’m sorry no new blogs have been posted, life is super hectic atm but bear with me and we’ll get the ball rolling again!!!
Trin <3
Thanks for the response Trin<3
Sorry my bad…I mean about your dancin that daisy asked.
If you are super busy then we will wait
Thanks tho
The audition blog is up!!! As well as the other few blogs I’ve written for Mia so far ( which like an idiot I just found lol) so take a gander and see if you have any more questions for me
My first private dance blog is underway, stay tuned!
Trin <3
Trin<3
really lovin what you are writin about
I have read all your stuff so far and it has made me want to try. I think i need to lose soem weight first, so no more food for a while mmmmm..
Hey Trinity
You are no idiot
I love what you are doing! You are really adding value, so thank you, I know you are busy, but still doing a fantastic job, which the girls are appreciating!
Mia xx
Awww you girls are the best!!! And I’m having a blast with this!!
Natalie,
Eat several small meals through the day and exercise 3-5 times a week. Yoga, pilates and/or strength training are all workout options that seem to benefit the girls I work with and myself as well.
Also, bananas, yogurt, glucosamin and clacium supplements may also be a good idea
Trin <3
Hey Trinity
your writin is great, can you tell me about how to do a dance? were you shy
what if the man laughs at me OMG
Great blog! I like how everything is well written. I will be back to check for new posts. Thanks!!
Erin,
Mia and I will blog a dancing blog asap!! Its not difficult though and I’ve had a customer get up and walk away, grumbling about the worst money he ever spent, so if he laughs just shrug it off; there are plenty of men willing to take his place
Leann,
Thanks!!!
Trin <3
Hi Trinity, I loook forward to that update
Maria
Maria,
It will be soon I promise!!!! Sorry about the long wait girls but life’s been crazy but i finally have a computer and internet so, back to a mostly regular schedule, thanks so much for your patience!!!
Trin <3
Hey Trinity,
Love all the advice so far. Well my two friends and I decided we wanted to earn some money because I have school bills to pay and dont have much time with concentrating on school. We’ve been reading alot of good information and tips, but I was wondering what your advice is as far as the three of us going in to audition all at once? And how does the auditioning process work after the fact of calling for the best time to audition and getting to the place? Do you go to the normal entrance and tell the bouncer that you are there to audition to avoid paying the cover charge? Any other specific details on what to expect when we audition? Do you think it would be bad to go in together? Is it possible to start working that night of auditioning? We plan to audition in less than 2 weeks and been preparing as much as we could so far. Thanks so much for sharing your experiences and advice with us!
Hi Lexi
This is Mia, and I would love to answer your questions
You can go in together but before you do I would suggest you call the club you want to work at and find out what thier audition process is.
If they have an amatuer night or if they hold auditions. You will know then what to expect from them.
Whether you can work or not, depends on the club. You may have to get a licence first.
Good luck. Come back and tell us how it went
Mia xx
Lexi,
Good luck! Mia covered all the basics and it never hurts to have friends. Try to work your schedule so you don’t get overwhelmed with schoolwork and trying to rest!!!
Trin <3
Trinity great to have you back
Mia xx
Thanks Mia!!!
i am scared to tell anyone about the choice that i am making to become a stripper..ithought iwas the only person to look up on how o become a stripper & now that i did, i am glad because i know its people out there that feels the same or have curiousity questions..my boyfriend is the only person that knows what i plan on doing bt suprisenly he was supportive & will be with me throughout the whole thing..thanks for the tips
Pleasure Candii
Mia xx
Trinity how did you learn how to dance is my main question. I think if you can dance you;ll have more confidence and wont be as nervous but i’m kind of nervous about letting my sexuality show.
Hi Mia
I’ve tried stripping one night but only for 3 hrs. I was so scared and nervous cos I didn’t really know what to do. Now the problem is I can not stop thinking about stripping, it’s in my head 24/7. I am thinking about going back but I am very shy and nervous to look at customers. Do you have any tips that I can learn?
One more question, do you think it’s bad for me to strip in the same state I live in?
Thanks Mia.. Hope to hear from you soon
Hey Trinity,
I’ve been thinking about becoming a stripper and how much it would be easier to bring home a 2 weeks’s paycheck just in one night. But I’m scared… I found a website that is hiring strippers for $100 an hour but it’s for bachelor parties or just private parties… And i got hired and the manager told me i can start whenever i want. Is this a good idea or bad idea ? I would’ve rather work in a club but the money sounds good.
luv kim
hi trinity! i liked this! im glad you wrote it! would you talk to us some more? iv got so many questions, i have a pleasent face, im thin, but i have small boobs, strippers have to have big boobs dont they? i have more questons…
Hi trin!,
Let me tell you my situation. I’m 18 and I love dancing and its so hrs getting a job right now. I am in college and I wanna strip because the money is needed. I’m wondering if I have to buy my own stripping clothes. And if I should actually tell my boyfriend and friends. I’m planning on ding it late at night.somewhere.where nobody will notice me. What’s your opinion?
Trinity,
I’ve been going back to your blog whenever i think about stripping trying to get advice. I’m going through a divorce and have a 2 yr old to worry about. Going to school full time and trying to get a job on the side is so hard. I can’t even get hired at wal-mart. i feel that like most girls stripping is a last resort because it’s taboo to their families. i think that this is something i could do because i’m very comfortable with myself and i know that my son having a full belly is the most important thing.
thank you for all your great advice. I’m really looking forward to being brave and auditioning soon
This is a very good blog. I am now 21 and I worry that I am getting too old. An issue is my body. I’m 5′7 and 1/2 and need to work out to lose some extra padding. I’m not fat, but I am not “dancer ready.” I am a D cup, but my body is just not ready. I am going to college and I work now but I sometimes wonder. I work out regularly and eat pretty good so I suppose my body is in the “process.” Thanks for the information over the web.
Hey Trinity,
My audition is tonight and I’m really nervous!! I hope I don’t make a fool of myself and get the job! I know I could do well, but I don’t have a lot of experience. Thanks for the advice! I’m definitely going to use it!
Hi Trinity,
I started considering be a stripper after my sister told me that I would make good money. I’m starting to think seriously about this decision..but Im still in high school. ill be graduating this may, and ill be 18 in two weeks.. should i wait to graduate or should i start right away?
Thanks
I have so many questions to ask