Comments on: Attraction Tips

By: Abbey

Abbey — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 08:17:50 +0000

I have been dancing for 13 years on and off between personal training. The money is not what it used to be 13 years ago. I used to dance in a go go bar (bikini) and I would work from 12PM-6PM and make between $500.00 and 1,000.00 a shift. I am currently dancing topless and I can make 400-1000.00 a night. I have to hustle to make my money. Some of the girls are over weight and ugly. I workout and have no cottage cheese on my body. I also have 34D implants that have no scars or ripples. Any advice that you can give me would be great. Thanks,

By: Inga

Inga — Fri, 24 Jun 2011 15:50:53 +0000

Just wanted to post this…. I noticed a lot of girls inquiring about breast size and shape. I was watching a movie with a guy friend of mine and there were a lot of topless chicks in it. I asked him what size and shape he prefers… And he answered. Boobs are boobs and guys are guys…. We are just happy to see them! I think to often we put to much pressure on ourselves….. Though of course u want to be toned… We are only human and confidence really extends from accepting and liking yourself.

By: DANIELLE HARRIS

DANIELLE HARRIS — Wed, 18 May 2011 23:07:51 +0000

HI,I’M A COLLEGE STUDENT AND I’M LOOKING TO GET INTO THE STRIPPING INDUSTRY TO PAY FOR MY CLASSES. I FEEL AS THOUGH I’M COMFORTABLE WITH MY BODY ENOUGH TO DO SO BUT I HAVE A PROBLEM. I CAN’T AFFORD TO BUY THE NECESSARY CLOTHING TO AUDITION..MY QUESTION IS: IS IT POSSIBLE TO ASK THE MANAGER FOR A LOAN AND PAY IT BACK WITH MY 1ST PAYCHECK..IF HIRED?????

By: Olivia

Olivia — Sun, 10 Apr 2011 02:22:54 +0000

First of all I love your blog,it was my lifelong dream as a kid to be a stripper- believe it or not- because I love to dance, but my question is, can an A-cup 5′5” ethnic succeed as a dancer or do I need a boob job?
Please reply.

By: Tanya

Tanya — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 00:42:30 +0000

Hi Mia,

I’m an experienced dancer but i need help with something really annoying, impairing my income.
Please don’t think i’m pretentious or something but i get turned down a lot by customers saying to me that i’m “too nice” “too good looking to do that” (like it’s a shame to choose this job !!!) and they don’t want to pay me for a dance because… they like me too much !! And, obviously they end up spending money onto another girl…
Please Help :’(

Tanya

By: Dev

Dev — Fri, 25 Feb 2011 05:43:25 +0000

Hello. I just had a quick question. I’m working on becoming a dancer, but I’m looking into things first, and one of the things suggested above had me wondering. When talking to a customer and asking questions, what questions are okay and what aren’t? I mean, I have a general idea of what is okay and what isn’t, but at the same time would asking how work was (or questions like that) be okay? Because I would think it wouldn’t be, like it may scare them off, but I’m inexperienced and unsure.

By: Jaguar

Jaguar — Sun, 06 Feb 2011 03:35:11 +0000

lmao @ previous poster…only because I used to wonder about the same thing. I would love to hear the guidelines or preferred techniques, or any suggestions that anyone has as well.

roll around blowing kisses…i love it! The image just tickles me because I know I would clutz that up and just look a mess lol

By: penguin

penguin — Sun, 06 Feb 2011 02:18:14 +0000

sorry if you already answered this (i’ve tried to read everything in the blogs but i may have missed it somewhere) how do you go about picking up tips? i mean you don’t just grab them and run off the stage do you? you kinda roll around maybe blow kisses idk? this seems like the most awkward part of the performance for me…

By: mia how to become a stripper

mia how to become a stripper — Sat, 05 Feb 2011 12:42:35 +0000

Hi Piper

It seems likey ou lack in confidence and that is what is making you less money. You also need to stop feeling like you are the worst dancer. I hardly dance, mostly gyrate and look lustily into the guys eyes and wiggle my behind when I am not facing him….where’s the dance skill in that?

You do not have to be a greta dancer, but be able to portray you are sexy. It doesn ot have to be a work of art….the man is seeing you be sexy…what else is there?

Women appreciate the dance more and men appreciate the feeling of sexy

Jessica will teach you how you can make money as she will tell you exactly what to do

I think you will be fine since you are being told you are lovely…You have what it takes

Good luck
Mia xx

By: Piper

Piper — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 23:04:40 +0000

Hey, I have several questions… I feel as if I am the WORST dancer in the world. Two of my sisters do it, and they always make more money. Constantly I sit close to girls, and listen to them to hear the things they talk about so I get an idea. I have almost been doing this for two years now, and my income has NOT increased. Sometimes I can make more than $200 a night, but mostly I am lucky if I break $100. I know the times are rough, and what not, but it is insane. My friend and I dance at the same club and last night I made a whole whopping $50 while she made over $400.
I have had several customers tell me that I am a beautiful disaster, and that I am just awkward. My confidence is high even though I don’t do well.
All the girls tell me to “hustle” but it never works.
I’m not super thin, and I have natural curves and an average body. People tell me all the time that I am lovely, but I don’t seem to make the money.
Any better advice you could give me?
I feel like I should just stop, while I still can.