A Customers Point of View!
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1) never approach a guy from behind. He wants to get a good look at you and fantasize a bit before he decides he likes you or not.
2) don’t rush a guy as soon as he arrives. He wants to look around and get the layout of the place, figure out the best place to sit, see what the girls look like, see if his favorites are there that night, have a drink first, maybe order something to eat and enjoy the stage show first, …
3) just because he rejects you the first time, don’t forget to stop by later. He might not have been ready yet or he realized he might like you afterall. He might have been waiting for the hot girl who was there last time or his first choice is fully occupied.
4) circulate. Don’t hang out in a corner with one guy or your girlfriends. There could be some guy waiting for you with a lot of cash but you disappeared. If there’s a bar hang out there awhile. At least every half hour just walk around in every section of the club. Walk slowly enough so a potential customer can get your attention. Just smile and make eye contact with everybody. If he likes you you’ll get some response, if not don’t hassle him.
5) if a new guy wants some dances don’t keep putting him off because all your regulars are wanting their dances. He could be a new regular. Give him a couple of dances early on at least.
6) stage dances are good advertisement for private dances. Since a tipper is already interested ask him if you should stop by his table after you get off stage.
7) don’t sit down with a customer unless they ask you. They could be waiting for the girl right behind you. (if there’s any fee involved with sitting at your table you should mention it upfront instead of presenting a big bill later like unsavory places do).
with some DJs it’s hard to know when one song ends and the next begins so the dancer should inform the customer frequently about how many dances were performed. Maybe collect the money after every 5 dances to make sure he can pay up. Guys don’t like it when the girl says she danced twice as many dances as he thought. Things could get ugly. The good girls ask after every dance whether they should continue.
9) if a club has a basic price for a dance don’t tell a guy that you charge more than the going rate. Guys go there for fun, they don’t like to get ripped off and that spoils the mood. Don’t ask for a tip above and beyond the normal price after a dance is over. If you were any good and they liked you they’ll ask for more dances.
10) it’s easy to get another dance from a guy by heating things up towards the end of a song. He won’t want to stop at that point.
11) guys have different tastes in girls. He might be in a mood for blonds instead of brunettes that night. He might prefer naturals instead of silicone(bowling balls aren’t sexy, a little natural bounce is sexy). He might prefer small or big butts. Don’t take it personally if he doesn’t want your company. He’s trying to fulfill his fantasies afterall.
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i am a newbiw at stripping(i just started a few weeks ago), but i have a great new tip to share with all of you about how to get a guy that you are currently dancing for, to buy a second or even a third dance with you that will make you even more money! SO, if your club allows slight physical contact between you(the dancer) and the customer, then at the end of the first dance, slowly and seductively being sure to keep full eye contact the whole time, slither up his chest, gently rub his shoulder and softly whisper in his ear and ask him this: “would like to have a bit more fun hunny”?(but try to do it in a way that DOESN’T imply that you will sleep with him! doing that sort of thing is a NO NO! not to mention it is TOTALLY illegal)! then slowly pull yourself to face him again(still gently rubbing his shoulder give him a sexy wink, just to make him fantasize for a minute about what might happen next. this line works for me 97% of the time and i almost always get a second or even third dance from him! cha-ching!
-muahs
Kitten
Great tip, Kitten…i do something similar
Mia x
Ok, so I had my first experience at a club over the weekend. In ways it was very intoxicating, and quite an experience. Now, a few days later, I have a much different perspective.
I read as many websites as I could find about clubs and dancers, because I felt ashamed in ways about getting private dances, and find my normal self-doubts creeping in making me wonder if I was respectable or a creep. After my studies, I don’t believe I came across as a creep but who knows.
I saw my fantasy girl there, and she was absolutely perfect in every sense of the word. Other girls were asking me if I wanted a dance, but she was different. I asked her. I don’t think she was totally comfortable, as she wanted to converse a little before we went to the back room. Not understanding at the time that dancers are not always comfortable with what they do with someone, I didn’t understand that she was probably experiencing a little discomfort over some stranger she has never met wanting a private dance in the VIP room so the conversation was something that I needed to help provide so she felt comfortable.
I think I said some awkward things, there was bumping and grinding, and after 2 back to back dances, I realized that as exhilarating as it was in ways, something seemed hollow about it inside me
Before I make this next statement, I want to clarify that I did not have sex with her (as far as I know that does not take place there). What I discovered is I did not want to have sex with her. To me, there has to be something more. I got an erection only near the end of the second dance, and I think it was more reflex than anything. In fact, I normally have no problem in that department in the slightest bit. Strangely flocks of naked women are not enough from some people. I think my needs are more emotional, and conversation would be 10 times as fulfilling.
I think I am in the same boat as she is. I need to be comfortable and so does she. So does any dancer for that matter. This changes things big time for me realizing this.
I want to go back again this weekend, but for totally different reasons. I know now that anything sensual is not going to be very satisfying to me without some comfort of being able to see a woman for who she is (Even if it is made up, as long as it sounds real) and give her a chance to see me for who I am. IF there is a comfort level at some point later on, a dance might be nice, but not because I want to. I think I will just tip for conversation. If after time, the dancer is comfortable with me and knows I don’t ask for dances, and knows that all they have to do is talk to get a tip, and they choose to ask if I would like to buy a dance, that would be 20 times more enjoyable than the instant gratification I believed I would get by getting a private dance with my dream girl. If the offer never comes, so be it. Conversation alone can meet some people’s wants and desires. Some guys like me never imagine that a drop dead gorgeous women would ever want to come over and talk, so in essence, that is my fantasy I guess if you want to call it that. I call it more along the lines of I am a lonely insecure person who just wants some company..
I am a very lonely person because I am so afraid of relationships, and buying conversation I think will help me feel less lonely and maybe help give me some confidence. I think I just want to be the nice guy who likes the company of a real person, and not the guy dropping endless dollars and trying to grind against anything with a curve to it. I think I can learn to respect women more, and feel they respect me, not feel so lonely, and build my confidence. Call it Strip club psychology or whatever, but you know what, this weekend, I won’t feel so damn lonely, and I know for sure now that I value a lot of things more than sex or a great looking body. I hope to learn more about myself and others there. Besides, If I did have the confidence to get girl friend, I would be spending the money on her anyway, so I am not at a loss at paying for someone to act like they have an interest. Quite frankly if there was somewhere I could go that would offer the companionship of conversation in the way a club can, I would go there instead. The dances are interesting, don’t get me wrong, but I think there is much more to offer for those who want it.
I hope this gives some insight that some guys may want something totally different than the bumping and grinding, and it would be beneficial to read the signs. I Spent a fair amount last weekend for a few dances and throwing tips to every dancer on stage . I spent much much less than I anticipated on spending, because all said and done, I realized the dances were not what I wanted. It was just the companionship. Since I didn’t realize I could pay for companionship through conversation, I left when I felt awkward because the women just kept asking if I wanted a dance and all the dances were doing was making me feel empty in the end. Had someone suggested a decent tip could keep them around for a short time to just talk, I would have spent much more just to have someone that I felt comfortable to talk to. Read the signs of your customer!!! Different people need different treatment, and it could be very worthwhile for you to notice the signs and offer a slower approach to someone who is willing to tip for conversation! Especially when they are new to the whole thing! I have a much deeper respect for dancers now, and look forward to what they have to offer that doesn’t involve removal of their clothes.
Hi Dave
First of all Thank you for your honesty
What you have said is worth so much to us daner girls
In fact there are clubs in most cities which offer VIp rooms where conversation is the feature and the girls get paid by the hour for this service
You would benefit from this service and the girls would be able t give you what youa re looking for . A lot if men want this service although they do not know that and you are brave enough t confront it
If you can tip this girl as if she was dancing for you and instead spending quality time conversing and entertaining you, then you will make her and your nigt so it really is a win win situation
I wish you luck and hope it goes well
Mia xx
I also hope the girls here learn how valuabloe tyalking to the customer is and how worthy of thier time it is so that they should feel justified charging for this service too
Mia x
how do you give a good lap dance. ive been taking lessons and im pretty ok at working the pole
but it seems like to me that the most money is in the private dance. how many different ways are there to shake your ass lol i feel like ill run out of moves without a pole…
Hi Angel
The way to give a lapdance is not to do a series of poses/moves but to sensually take the man on a journey with your eyes and your body so that it is sexy.
Its not about shaking your ass, but you could spend 5 minutes staring at him while you lick your lips and remove your dress asyour hands caress your breasts..does that make sense..
Its about keeping it enticing and sexy and sensual
Without giving away too much
Mia xxx